SPAIN | Socializing | Cultural information
Mentality & Communication
In Spain, when meeting new people and introducing oneself in an informal setting, it is done by giving one’s name and kissing twice on both cheeks, if a woman is being introduced to a woman or to a man or, if a man is being introduced to another man, you simply shake hands.
Concerning formal introductions, you should give your name and surname and shake hands.
Going out to Eat or Drink
In Spain, during the week it is very common to go out for “pinchos” or “tapas” in the evening and at the weekend. Morning “aperitifs” are also common and consist of beer, wine or soft drink and a small snack.
Restaurants, bars and cafés have a different timetable from other establishments. They open every day except for one day during the week, but never on a Sunday or a Saturday, as weekends are usually busier. Mealtimes are usually from 1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. and from 8:30 p.m. to 11:00 p.m., although some places that offer café or bar services stay open continuously from 09:00 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. The “daily menu”, consisting of a two-course meal and dessert, is typical in restaurants. The daily menu includes water or wine and bread. It is usually cheaper than ordering from the restaurant’s menu list.
Although almost every establishment includes a service charge in their bill, it is quite common to leave a few coins as a tip. This custom, common in bars and restaurants, has been extended to hotel porters, theatre and cinema ushers, and taxi drivers, although it is not obligatory and nobody will recriminate you for not tipping. It’s a personal decision. If you are happy with the service you can leave a 5-10% tip of the total amount, depending on the actual amount and not exceeding 3 Euro in places, such as restaurants, bars, cafés and taxi services. If you are dissatisfied with the service there is no obligation to leave a tip.
Local Customs
- Bulls: Bullfighting is the national festival. In any local celebration, secular or religious, there is a bullfight: adult bulls are placed in the most important bullrings and younger ones (novillos) in the smaller ones. Bullfighting attracts the vast majority of Spanish people but not everybody. Critics of this popular fiesta, who come to the defence of the animals, are increasing in number.
- Sevillanas: Not everyone knows how to dance them nor do they even like them. It is a typical dance from Andalusia, more precisely from Seville, in which their dress and hairstyles are highlighted by their colouring.
- Flamenco: Just like “Sevillanas”, it is a dance that is enjoyed by part of the population. It is more widespread in the South, especially in Andalusia.
- Siesta: Very popular throughout the world, this nice habit is of Spanish origin. It’s a short and refreshing nap taken after lunch to gain renewed strength to tackle the rest of the day.